Ask most men how to provide sexual pleasure to a woman and 9 times out of 10 they will put their hands in their pockets. Some will thrust their hips out. It all comes down to some physical gesture that suggests the key is all in the penis. Unfortunately for the woman in their lives, they are wrong. What these men need to learn is how to really make her orgasm through oral sex.
Think about it. If it was all in the penis lesbians would never enjoy orgasms. And yet, somehow, they do. Really massive ones, if online reports are to be believed.
So, How Do They Know How to Lick a Girl’s Pussy?
Know Your Territory
Of course you know that men and women have different sexual organs, but do you know the top three places your woman likes to be caressed? Let’s say it’s the back of her knees, for example. Do you know how she likes to be touched there? Do you know that sometimes she likes to be touched one way, and sometimes another? Can you tell how you should be touching her in her top three places to move her further up the stimulation ladder?
If not, don’t feel bad. The quickest way to learn is to ask someone to teach you. So, just ask her. And then, and this is very important, listen to the answer. If you are like most men, you will get aroused when you ask this question. Now, the discussion may lead to sex but, and this is even more important, that is not the point of asking the question.
Move Slowly. Very, very slowly
Face it, men are ready to go at the drop of a hat. Women are the freight trains of sexual arousal. They start and build momentum slowly, but once they get moving it is wonderful to behold. This is why they have multiple orgasms.
So after you know where and how to caress her, do it slowly. Trust me, her lovely response is not the green light you think it is. It is only your signal to start moving to the next step in the dance.
No, not yet. The nerve endings of the female genitalia are all over the place. Any place in her crotch that you kiss gently will give her pleasure. And there may be a few spots she likes to be caressed down there that she does not know about yet. Try to find them.
When you can taste her vaginal juices on her outer labia you are ready to move, slowly, toward the main event. Gently push the hood back from her clitoris. Use your fingers and do it carefully. You did make sure your nails were trimmed before you started this, right? If not, stop right then, excuse yourself, and go trim them. This is the last place you want to scratch by accident.
Take her clitoris into your mouth only after you have circled it a few times with your tongue. Start sucking gently, increasing pressure as her sexual pleasure builds. The higher her state of arousal the more pressure you should apply, but let her lead the way. It may take some time. This is how to really make her orgasm through oral sex.